I’m kind of drunk while writing this so you know it’s going to be a heartfelt write-up 
Guys and girls, if there is someone out there that you like, ask them!!! This write-up was originally going to be intended just for the men as I get asked SO many questions from them about how to approach women. I will do a detailed write-up soon about relationships but right now I would like to get this out.
Guys, if there is a girl you like, visualize in your head how you would like it to go, rehearse it in your mind, and then go and ask her! By the way, be honest with yourself in what you want. If you’re friend is this beautiful amazing sexy gorgeous woman, who makes you excited just by thinking about her, don’t bullshit yourself and her by saying you just want to be her friend. Be honest with yourself that you want her. It’ll do you and her a world of good. You won’t go around neglecting your true feelings and you might just score an awesome girlfriend in the process.
Now back to asking. When you do ask her out, do as Jack Canfield, author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul books likes to recommend. Canfield says to “ask as if you expect to get it” meaning ask the girl like you know she will be yours. Expect her to say yes! This will do two things; 1) You’ll feel more confident and relaxed while asking and 2) She’ll pick up on this confidence which will make her more attracted to you and more likely to say yes.
I was inspired to do this writing as I just got home from going out with a gorgeous friend of mine. Next Wednesday I am moving to Michigan and just started thinking about how much I enjoy going out with my friend. I decided to pursue her romantically and so far it has been good. I wish I had more time to pursue her but fate has other plans for me.
I’ve known this girl for a few years now and it feels like I wasted a large chunk of time that could have been better spent with her. That is why I am so adamant in this writing! If you like a woman, go ask her out!!! Don’t waste time thinking about it. Just go and do it. The worst that can happen is that she tells you no. If she does, so what? Then at least you know how she feels about you. You don’t have to worry about asking her out and if you really like her, you can regroup and come up with a better strategy to get her. Also, if she says no, you didn’t really lose anything to begin with. She was never yours to start with so you’re pretty much at the same level you were before asking.
One time I asked out this gorgeous girl and for some reason I didn’t think she would say yes (this was sometime back). A few months later we were at a club and really hit it off. I asked her why she said no to that previous time I asked to which she replied, “Because you asked like I was going to say no. I thought maybe you weren’t that interested in me.” The truth is that it couldn’t have been farther from the truth.
I hope my drunken rambling spurs you on to go get the person you want. There is that saying “What you want wants you”. There IS someone out there that wants you and they are just a question away. So go ask them and I will see you back here soon!
