How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number

This is a write-up that should hopefully help a lot of people. To some, it might seem like common sense, to others, it will be revolutionary. I got this method from Paul Janka’s Attraction Formula. Janka is a New York playboy who at one time was not so successful with women. After much trial and error, Janka created an amazing system for meeting and picking up women that I think will revolutionize the dating world. At the very least, it’s revolutionized my dating world. My friends look at me like I have super powers when I walk up and get all these beautiful women’s numbers.

Here‘s a brief look at Janka’s method for getting the digits:

Let’s say you are out during the day and see a woman you like. You’re going to use the “1 Minute Movie Trailer” approach of getting her number. What this means is that you get in and get out in one minute or less. Have you seen a movie trailer lately? What do they do? They show you just the highlights of the movie, get you excited, and then cut it off leaving you wanting more and even willing to pay for the rest. This same approach (except for maybe the paying part ) is what you are going to use.

Basically when you see a woman you like you are going to go up to her and use the following:
“Hi I’m (insert your name). I saw you as I was (insert whatever you were doing; walking, bicycling, running, etc..) and thought you were cute and wanted to introduce myself.” Normally she’ll say “Aw” or “That’s so sweet” or introduce herself back immediately. Tell her, “I have to go in a minute to (meet some friends, get to a meeting, whatever you think is good) but would you want to grab drinks sometime? (coffee if you don’t drink).” It’s that simple!

You will be shocked at how many women will say yes. I was, and I’ve gone out with some of the most beautiful women on this earth. It shocked me in that it’s so simple. This method allows you to be sincere and honest while approaching in a confident manner. It eliminates any awkward pauses or weird silent moments and cuts right to the chase. When you leave, it will leave a positive impression on the woman as you came on so strong and sure of yourself.

Few Notes:

1) Forget any BS you heard about not complimenting women. If some stranger walked up and gave you a compliment today, you would probably feel really good about it.

2) Walk or run away from any women with really negative energy. Unfortunately there are some women out there who get their jollies from crushing a man’s spirit (ladies, I know there are plenty of crap men out there too). If you encounter one, immediately stop the interaction and walk away. I’ve done this in mid-sentence as have other guys I know. As Janka says “difficult women remain difficult”. You want a woman who’s just as into you as you are into her and trust me, there are plenty of great women out there who will be.

3) Don’t let one “no” get you down. There are tons of women out there. The one that said no might have a boyfriend, be married, having a bad day, be in a hurry, be into other women, or have some other legitimate reason. As Janka says, just say “Next!” and move on. Everyone gets rejected. If you’re not getting rejected it means you’re not asking. Just say “Next!” and move on to the next one.

4) After she says “Yes”, pull out your phone and get the number. Don’t get all super excited right then, you can do that after she is out of sight Make it like it’s the most natural and normal thing in the world. With practice, it will be.

5) Practice practice practice! Getting the digits is a skill just like anything else. Give yourself time to get good at it. If you live in a large metropolitan city, grab a good friend and go hone your skills. It’s an easy way to get good fast.

For the women who are reading this, this same method would most likely work on a man so feel free to try it out. Guys, I wish you the best of luck and feel free to shoot me a message letting me know how this goes.

Special Note: I think Paul Janka’s book, Attraction Formula, is probably the best resource for men right now on how to meet and interact with women. I would definitely recommend it to any man who wants to improve his dating life. Janka’s new dating model to me is revolutionary and will get you better results while keeping more money in your pocket. Just about everything you can imagine is covered in his book and probably some things you never even thought of. Everything from having the right mindset to approaching, the actual approach, what to do after you get the number, and much more is discussed. For $20, it’s one of the best investments you can make.

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